The Brick Chronicles feature unique creations made with Lego® bricks. Hopefully you, and the children in your life, will find them as inspiring as I do!
I know what you are thinking – why are we advocating for pocket knives to be made out of legos? Well…I think it has something to do with being the parent of boys. Despite all of our attempts to provide gender-neutral toys and shelter them from violence and toy guns, my oldest child is fascinated with guns, world wars and pretending to shoot things. Sigh. Plus, he’s ten…and ten-year-old boys are ready for “dangerous” tools.
So, I keep an eye on the research about said things and embrace the “dangerous” things so that I am not denying some biological need. We still strongly advocate for using words and they get in trouble for resolving disputes with physical altercations, but I’ve always encouraged them to build things out of legos that I won’t buy them (and that includes toy guns). This way they get to play in a way that they need – and I can still show my face at the moms’ group.
Ironically, these pocket knives came about because as he gets older, we feel he is ready to experience the “real” thing and that includes a pocket knife. For his tenth birthday, he received a Leatherman tool and he’s been chopping outside things all over the place. It’s a way to teach responsibility while he’s still under our roof. Honestly, he was ready last year, but his younger brother was not and we weren’t sure that it would stay out of said younger bother’s hands.
We still shy away from violent video games (there’s a lot of research on that) and we don’t encourage fantastical movie violence, but we’ve found that for our oldest son – embracing the “dangerous” has actually encouraged a healthy respect for it.